If we choose our battles wisely, then the words and actions we'll have for one another will only serve to nourish and not harm.
If at the end of every miscommunicated conversation and disagreement we have, you are still there, making me laugh...turning my frown upside down and giving the world "double rainbows" through my dimples, then I want you by my side.
If every argument we ever have, always ends in some sort of greater understanding of and for one another, then I choose you.
If after hardships and adversity breaks us apart, and I cannot harbor feelings of hatred and animosity towards you, then I need you in my life.
Because I don't want to be without somebody who can make me feel even more loved after a fight.
This doesn't go to say, that I want to argue with you. I don't. I would much rather not, but when and if we ever do--and you can still honestly be madly in love with me, then I have to have you.
I don't want anything less than that. At least, not after experiencing the kind of love that you've shown.Labels: choosing battles wisely, day 4, relationships